Terry Rifkin was recommended to my husband and me for marriage counseling by a friend. Had we not met Terry to help teach us new tools and skills for communication, we would have surely been on the road to divorce.  We always attacked each other and now we have learned to work together and attack the problem.  I never thought conflict could be respectful and even bring us closer.  Terry helped us to see each other in a new way that we could not have done on our own.